No, it’s always about you and it always will be.
In the most unselfish way possible, it has always been about you. From the way you handle your problems, to the manner in which you respond to your worst enemy. Your external responses and actions are a reflection of who you are and how you treat yourself.
Why are we here if what we do is not for finding ourselves? What are we doing if we’re not living to do meaningful things, make someone else’s life better, or finding the true delicate places in the world?
Nobody has the time for everything. Even if someone else had spare time, they wouldn’t be able to transfer it onto you. Not in our day and age at least.